A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?
The Father-in-law answered in a smile, Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.
We all look forward to being loved and respected, many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are poitnting at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.